I Am Furious Right Now (Contacted by a Girl Who Knows My Ex)?
Question by Katie: I am furious right now (contacted by a girl who knows my ex)?
Dated a guy about 4 years ago who brought nothing but trouble. Was seeing other girls all along, despite telling me we were exclusive. He then gave one of them my number, told her I was “stalking” him, and I got a load of abuse and threats.
He continued to harass me and wait by my work etc on/off for the next 3 years.
2013 I moved in with someone, and never think about that ex.
Until today – I got a call from a girl who was absolutely SCREAMING. I don’t know her but she said he’d passed my name and number to her – truly very scary esp as he knows my home address too. Someone else has been harassing this girl online, and, for some reason, my ex gave her MY details! I’ve no idea why!! She now knows my full name, facebook page, address, and last place of work (not present, thank God, as I haven’t spoken to my ex since I’ve been at my current job).
I tried to talk to this girl calmly but she wasn’t having it and said she had “proof” that I’m behind her harassment, and that my ex has been “helping” her with her “enquiries”. She also said she’s going to go to my work (which is, as I say, is my last job, luckily) and tell them I’m a “drug dealer” – wtf?? I wouldn’t even know how to hold a cigarette!
Easy to say “ignore her” but I am worried she’ll make trouble as someone has obviously got to her very badly and she mistakenly thinks it’s me. Do I just ignore this, or what? I can’t contact my ex to ask wtf he’s playing at as I have no contact info for him. I am so angry right now. She was threatening to come to my house and everything! I tried to talk to her calmly but she was so classless and just screamed and screamed, getting it all out of her system, I guess, but wrong person! I don’t let people talk to me like this, so she is lucky I’m not retaliating, but, what to do?
Best answer:
Answer by Bentley
I would make a police report.
Answer by mccoyblues
Now that it’s out of her system you’ll probably never hear from her again.
But I might consider sending her a nice calm text letting her know that she is being played by this goon and you have nothing to do with her anger issues. And then let her know that if she ever attempts to contact you again you will consider it a threat to your safety and you will have her arrested.